The Living Journal of Iris

My name is Iris. I am the wife of an amazing Husband of 17 years. The mother of four wonderful girls (all grown and gone.) And 12 even greater grand children (moving ever so fast towards adulthood.)

No,life is not a box of chocolates it is more like this huge roller coaster and we just roll with the twist and move on. You cannot control people or things, only how you react to the person or situation.

Monday, June 14, 2010

Back in the Day

I find it so crazy today that the government runs our lives.  CPS dictates how we raise our children, The local government tells us what we can do with the property we own, The state government generally tells us when a perfectly good car is ready to retire.  There are so many instances that it is astonishing.

I was at the library the other day and noticed a desk full of advertising.  When I went to see what it was i immediately got mad.  And I am thinking well our tax dollars really are at work. There were also many adoption flyers.  Then I overheard a lady talking about the schools having a CPS worker on staff  in every school.  Now yes in some instances this is good.  There are legitimate abused children, true physical abuse.  Today it does not even have to be physical.  It can be screaming at them, It can be playing and saying something like you are a nut case, all the child has to say is yea they said it.  And boom the kids are taken and placed in foster care.  And generally adopted out.
The state wins because they get BIG tax dollars for every child they place in foster care, with people who are paid by the government to babysit the kids.  Then there are adoption incentives.  Big money again, to get these kids adopted.  The government in ever state in the US  is making so much money off the lives of children.  Off of hurting families.  It is legalized child trafficking.  

Now lets talk about the effect on the children.  A child is raised with the parents who bore them.   Good or bad they are loved and they know this.  They have everything they need.  Maybe not everything they want.  But hey.  The house is not spotless, the kids are fed and bathed, they have friends and a routine.  Then the CPS worker at the school takes the children from the school.  You are devastated.  If you ever are to see your children again you you are to go to counseling where you are told from the begining the children will be adopted out. That you will never see them again. And the spiral down begins.  You are given a PSYC EVAL, and mandatory drug tests, even though you have never had a dirty test.   You are not allowed to contact the children or even tell them bye.  You never see your children again.  And why?  Because the state is to concerned with making money.  Not fixing anything that could possibly be wrong. And this is all done in THE BEST INTEREST OF THE STATE.  Not the Child.

The child/children now have disabilities they have never had.  (Can't get federal funding for the state without a problem.)  They are then drugged into submission.  By the state paid physicians who are treating them for this new problem.  The child is so devastated.  A whole family has been wiped from their lives.  No more Grandma, grandpa, aunts , uncles, cousins, but most important no mom or dad.  And they don't know why.  But this new pill will make you forget your parents and family. 

Now on to adoption.  The adoptees and the agency who adopts  the child out are paid huge funds to adopt children in state care.  Why because all these children are in need of a home.  Most of the time they are put in worse situation than they were in.  But hey money was made and that makes it OK.

I encourage parents to Home School their children get them all out of the public hands.  You have control at home.  The constitution guarantees that.  At school you will never see them again once they are gone.

When mine were little, I abused them every chance I got.  I whipped their ass when they needed it.   I let them ride in the back of a truck, swam in a lake, played outside unsupervised, walked to the store by themselves, took whiskey, peppermint and lemon for a cough, drink from a water hose, oh and rode in the back window of a car,  did not wear a seat belt or sit in a booster seat.  Sat in the car while I went in to pay a bill.  OH Yea and I really commited the worst offense of all.  I did not give my children cell phones or cable.  they had to entertain themselves.  The concept today is to put no stress on the child.  Don't correct them don't whip them , don't let them do anything that will make them a free thinker or show them they can solve a problem.  Instead the children today stand up to their parents and say go ahead and i will call CPS.    And the parent cowers.  The child has won. Or the child ends up thinking their parents don't love them because they do nothing.
This societal mess has made thugs out of the children.  Children have no thought process or ability to even count. But they are passing in school.  While the parent takes the blame for the mess the government has made.  Please if you get nothing else out of this contact your home school agency and home school your kids.  It only takes a couple of ours a day not all day.  And yuou can even have someone else do it or get lessons online. 
Stop the process of Dumbing Down America. Show you are in control of your children.  Don't let the state make money off your kids.

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